my cousin asked me what my favorite season was and i said “of what” and i just
it’s frightening how long it took me to figure out what was wrong with that response
Aww, I’m so sorry! Okay, so I really don’t want to come off as a bitch when I say this, so don’t get mad. But from the sound if it it seems like your friend isn’t much of a friend if he’s not willing to work on your friendship. It seems like the friendship means more to you than it does to him. I’m so sorry he’s acting like that. I wish I could go smack some sense into him for you, boo! Maybe try talking to him one last time? Explain that your friendship means a lot and you don’t want to loose him or the relationship you two have. Leg him know that you understand that he had a girlfriend, but that shouldn’t change things drastically. Tell him that you don’t expect him to neglect her and kiss the ground you walk on, just give you a little time and attention. I mean, to be honest it’s really not that hard maintaining a relationship with your significant other and continuing relationships with friends and family. Practically everyone balances relationships, so why is he having such a difficult time? I understand that he wants to spend time with his gf, but he shouldn’t put his life on hold! I hope everything works out, boo. And if he still doesn’t seem to understand, maybe he just needs time for it to sink in. Or maybe, he was be never as good of a friend as you thought he was. Either way, good luck! I’m always here if you need someone to talk to.